Men need to have sugar-coated mouths to keep relationships and marriages strong – Rev Vincent Kankam (Sofo Kankam)
Rev. Vincent Kankam, host of Food For Thought on Kessben FM, speaking on this week’s topic titled “After I Love You” challenged men to become more emotionally expressive, saying that “as a man, you need to have a sugarcoated mouth because women like to hear sweet things.”
The message, though lighthearted in delivery, carried deep insight into the emotional needs within romantic relationships and marriages. According to Rev. Kankam, many men struggle to sustain the emotional connection that often begins with the simple phrase, “I love you.” He stressed that maintaining that connection requires ongoing verbal affirmation.
Rev. Kankam’s use of the phrase “sugarcoated mouth” was not a call for dishonesty, but rather a push for intentional, affectionate communication. He explained that regularly speaking kind, uplifting, and romantic words can go a long way in strengthening the bond between couples..”
The reverend tied the lesson into a spiritual perspective, comparing it to how Christians communicate with God. “We don’t just love God, we say it. We sing it. We pray it. So why do we struggle to do the same for the ones we live with every day
Rev. Kankam’s weekly Food For Thought Show continues to resonate with audiences across Ghana and beyond, blending biblical wisdom with practical relationship advice. His “After I Love You” message is a reminder to men that love is not just a noun, but a verb,one that must be consistently communicated in word and deed.
So, gentlemen, if you’ve been wondering how to keep your relationship thriving, Rev. Kankam’s advice is clear: speak sweetly, speak often, and mean every word.
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