Babe, today is your lucky day because I will show you how to make any female squirt. There are lots of tutorials around, but none of them include my secret sauce. This guide is meant to help you “help” the women that say “it’s just not possible”.

I love squirting. It’s one of my favorite things to teach, especially to women that haven’t or don’t think they can. If you can create the right environment, it really can be an amazing release.

Today’s guide will give you the practical information you need to be the one that will make her squirt. I will explain the basics about squirting, and then I have three steps for the ultimate squirting experience.

So, what is squirting? Squirting is female ejaculation. It often gets confused with pee mainly for two reasons.

• First, just before the woman squirts it feels as if she wants to go to the toilet. It comes through the same channel; however, it’s from a different gland.
• Many women get scared that they will pee, so they stop the experience, unaware that they’re on the edge of squirting. Squirting is experienced when a woman is able to relax and let go.

Squirting is female ejaculation.

There is a difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal, G-spot orgasm.

• Clitoral orgasm is experienced as contraction. You stimulate the clitoris to the point when the whole body contracts into a peak experience.
• G-spot orgasm is different. It feels like an extension, sinking in and letting go. It is a point of a deep sense of release and complete surrender. Same as with squirting, you can’t push your way into it.

Clitoral orgasm is experienced as contraction. G-spot orgasm is different. It feels like an extension.

This is where you come in. You want to create an experience where your woman is safe enough to completely let go, diving into the pleasure she is feeling. She needs to know that whatever comes out, you are ok with it. In fact it might just turn you on.

Okay, so it’s time for three steps to the ultimate squirting experience.

Step #1: Set the scene

Prepare the space for the experience. It can be any place, but it is important that you won’t be disturbed. If you want to add something extra, put on some nice music or light some candles. The environment needs to be relaxing so your partner can let go. Now, there are a few key points here.

Music

You don’t want her to be worried about making noise. In fact, encourage her to make noise because that’s going to give you the barometer on how you are doing.

Lighting

The reason it’s good to get the lighting right is, again, you don’t want her to feel self-conscious. You don’t want her to be looking down and seeing stuff coming out that she’ll worry about. So, just use some nice, easy lighting. Soft lights will reduce her stress about you seeing too much and keep her from trying too hard to see what’s happening. Make it fairly dark and pretty mysterious, and let her relax.

Intention

Communicate your intention to your partner. Let her know that she can relax and just receive. Explain to her that you are fully there for her and she doesn’t have to be afraid to feel all the sensations, including the sense that she has to pee. You are there for it, and you should be having fun together. Let her know that you expect nothing in return.

Towel

I would also potentially lay a towel down just so that you’re both not worried about making a mess. Then, when she is ready, invite her to lay down and relax.

Step #2: The build-up

Women take longer to open and get aroused. You want to start with a massage of her whole body to activate every inch of it. Touch her, caress her, and slowly build up the arousal she feels. This is already part of the journey. The more time you devote to these simple build-up steps, the easier it will be to make her squirt when you get to the G-spot.

I would have her lie on her stomach and pay particular attention to her midsection. Work her upper thighs, bumps, and hips. The idea is to get her to release and relax.

Full body tantric massage

When her whole body is turned on, move to her vulva. There are actually nerve endings on either side of these lips and all throughout. Move across the whole area, and then eventually work into the clitoris. The aim here is to get her whole body ready to receive you. When you eventually do put your hand close to the vaginal opening, she should almost automatically draw you in with her pelvic muscles when she’s ready.

Step #3: G-spot stimulation and squirting

When you feel her drawing you in, insert two fingers and start making your way to the G-spot. It is about two inches inside the outer edges of the vagina; a small spongy spot that will be stimulated.

Here is a pro-tip that I haven’t heard anywhere else. Rather than feeling for when you’re in the right spot or doing the right movement, listen for it. The louder the noise, the closer you are. I also encourage her to vocalise. To fully let go, she will need to be vocal, so let her know that anything is accepted.

Technique: the “come-to-me” movement

Sit to the right of your woman with her legs open. Start making her move back and forth.

Put your index finger as deep as you can and work your way forward, using sound as a guide to know when you get to the right spot. Begin gently and slowly. Let her guide you the whole time, watching her reactions and doing what allows her to open more and feel the arousal.

It is important to help her relax through this process. Tell her how sexy she is and how hearing her moan is turning you on.

Slide two fingers — the middle and the ring finger — around the outside of her asshole area, or slide them inside as things become very well lubricated down there. It is also a great way to get those fingers out of the road.

As I said earlier, now it’s time for the secret sauce.

What if the above doesn’t work?

If you feel safe that you’re doing the right technique, that should cover about 80 to 90 percent of women. But, what about the others?

Well, oftentimes, it is due to them tensing their stomach. They just can’t relax that area. Something you can try is placing your left hand on their stomach to make them aware of the tension. Just encourage them to relax and let go. If they can’t relax, squirting can’t happen.

If you bring their legs up and bend them towards the shoulders, it becomes very hard to tense up. There, try the “come-to-me” motion, and you should be able to help them release. Now, just remember, every woman is different and experiences pleasure differently. Don’t expect her to have a certain way of showing up.

Last but not least, unlike clitoral orgasm, women can often have several G-spot orgasms.It might look like a wave. When she reaches a peak, before you know it, her arousal is going back up and she’s climaxing again.

Now it’s time to take this knowledge and enjoy it. This is a great exercise to start with, as your partner does not feel the pressure to perform. But, once she realizes that she can squirt, it just opens up a whole other world. It is much more likely for her to start experiencing it in intercourse as well. The possibilities are endless.

Source: Sexography