Men should learn to control their libidos, not all cuddles from women mean they want ‘Chakadum’ – DJ KA tells the Brotherhood
Popular on-air personality, DJ KA, has advised men to learn self-control and emotional maturity in their relationships.
Speaking on Kessben FM, the energetic DJ said many men wrongly interpret every affectionate gesture from women as an invitation to sex, a mindset he described as immature and problematic.
According to DJ KA, physical closeness or cuddling should not automatically be linked to sexual desire. “Not every cuddle or touch from a woman means she wants to have sex,” he emphasized. “Sometimes, women just want comfort, warmth, or emotional connection. Men must learn to understand and respect that.”
He further explained that the inability of some men to manage their libido often leads to misunderstandings, strained relationships, and even cases of abuse. “Real men know how to control their emotions and respect boundaries. You can share closeness without crossing the line,” he added.
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